We believe in self care as a form of protest. 

 
 

About—

We offered our very first women’s retreat in the refreshing autumn air of the coast of northern California in November 2011. Through divine guidance this retreat was called Moving Into The Light, a weekend of Self Care, Empowerment and Positive Transformation for self identified women. The experience was life transforming and we continued to offer this retreat over the next decade. As Dragonfly Healing Center, we also offered numerous other programs, services, events and retreats to thousands of participants.  

In 2019, Dragonfly Healing Center became established as an official 501(c)(3) tax exempt public charity nonprofit. In 2022, we officially became recognized as Ways of the Rising Woman.

 
 
 

We are going back to our roots while we grow into the new—we are rooted to rise.

 
 
 
 
  • Founder and Executive Director

    After becoming the first Black person to obtain a Masters degree in Computer Science and Engineering at the University of Notre Dame, Melissa worked in Silicon Valley as an engineer, project manager and consultant in technology. She was intimate with stress and eventually burnout, being traumatized by the unhealthy work culture. When an engineer on her team died from a stress induced heart attack she left her corporate career feeling disappointed and disgusted by the “American Dream”. After taking time to heal, she became passionate to learn more about stress, it's detrimental effects, and ways of prevention.

    This inspired her to earn a Masters degree in Counseling Psychology from Santa Clara University with specializations in Health Psychology and Mindfulness. Through her own direct experiences of the power of mindfulness, Melissa has been compelled to share these teachings for almost 15 years in health care centers, educational institutions, and corporate environments.

    She has led workshops and talks at many organizations, including the Google headquarters, and has been featured on the cover of Mindful magazine. She has also traveled to over 70 countries connecting with people of diverse backgrounds and discovering that we all wish for happiness and joy. Melissa finds great meaning in supporting others to transform their pain into purpose and live their joyful truth by allowing themselves to be free to live the life of their highest calling.

 

Our Board

It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more. Or maybe you have a creative project to share with the world.


 
  • Gina Waota is the CEO of WMB Financial Solutions the parent company of WMB General Contractors a building management solutions company.

    As the majority shareholder of the company, she sets the strategic direction and works closely with the team on all accounting and financial issues.

    Gina's background in taxes, cost accounting and audit is particularly helpful to ensure that projects are always on budget. Gina Waota started her career as an associate at one of the Big 4 Accounting Firms KPMG specializing in audit and financial management.

    She went on to build her own practice, Olsen & Partners, CPA providing tax and consulting services to small and mid-size companies in the San Francisco bay area. Olsen & Partners, CPA was subsequently sold after more than seven years in business and more than a thousand individual and business clients.

    Besides her role as the CEO of WMB Financial Solutions Inc, Gina is focusing on developing and funding new ventures around her passion for fashion, arts and philanthropy.

    She is committed to giving back to the community by teaching, mentoring and giving speeches on financial education, entrepreneurship and self-improvement. ​

    Gina is a Certified Public Accountant and a graduate from Denver University with a Bachelor of Science in Accounting. Gina has completed a Retreat Teacher Training Certification through Dragonfly Center.

    Gina loves spending time with her husband and two girls. She enjoys reading, traveling, yoga and dedicating her time to nonprofit causes in the US and developing countries. ​

 
  • Secretary of the Board of Directors

    Rochelle is an embodied leadership facilitator, mindfulness teacher, and self-care activist fostering wellbeing, connection, and values-based living for individuals, communities, and teams. Rochelle is a certified Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) teacher and Occupational Therapist who works with individuals and groups internationally. She's an embodiment-based empowerment facilitator for women wanting to reclaim the wisdom within to co-create the life and world they long for and know in their hearts is possible.

    In 1998, Rochelle began practicing yoga and meditation which helped her mitigate daily stressors and the complex demands of working in healthcare on the front lines of catastrophic human suffering in a large rehab hospital in Silicon Valley. In 2005, she began the journey of training to become an MBSR teacher which became a journey that bestowed the profound gifts of mindfulness, a practice that became her sanctuary for navigating the complexities of modern life and connected her to her heart and soul. Her work teaching mindfulness to several hundred folks in academia, healthcare, and corporate environments since 2006 has allowed her to witness the impact of stress on people’s lives and mindfulness as a healing antidote and a kind of "anti-venom" for internalized systemic oppression.

    Rochelle is the founding director for SJSU's Certificate in Applied Mindfulness and she leads mindfulness programs for corporate settings, in academia, for educators, and healthcare workers globally. Rochelle's on the board of directors of Dragonfly Healing Center and she is the founder of Ways of the Rising Woman which is in the process of becoming a non-profit organization seeking to amplify the voices of the marginalized in our midst. She draws from an extensive background in lifestyle redesign, somatic embodiment-based practices, food-as-medicine, ancestral healing, mythology, alchemy, indigenous cultures, equine-assisted modalities, and poetic traditions. Her work is trauma- and culture-sensitive and embodies the love of soul, the more-than-human world, the arts, ritual, and devotion to bringing all of these into a thriving and sustainable community as a kind of activism.

 
 
  • Carolina Cervantes is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Carolina obtained a Bachelor’s degree in Sociology and Psychology from Notre Dame de Namur University in Belmont, CA in 2008. She worked as a Community Organizer in the Bay Area, teaching community members how to utilize one-to-one conversations to build relationships and surface socio-political issues of common concern, to research solutions to these issues, and to seek solutions in the public arena.

    Carolina continued her education at Santa Clara University and graduated with a Masters in Art in Counseling Psychology with an Emphasis in Latino Psychology in 2011.

    She utilizes a holistic approach to guide individuals of all ages in overcoming behavioral health challenges and reaching their full potential. Carolina integrates person-centered, cognitive behavioral and mindfulness techniques in her work with clients and believes that mindfulness is powerful in healing trauma and attaining happiness.

    Carolina currently resides in Los Angeles County with her husband and toddler. She is taking a break from her role as a therapist to raise her son.

 
  • Anu is a Psychotherapist, Social Justice Advocate and Writer who resides in Oakland, California. She received her Bachelor's degree in Political Science and Education from the University of California San Diego then her Masters degree in Counseling Psychology (LMFT track) from Santa Clara University. Anu has been a licensed psychotherapist since 2015 and provides mental health services to adolescents, adults, couples, and families on issues, including: Mood disorders, Anxiety disorders, trauma/ PTSD, working with survivors of sexual assault, Schizophrenia, substance abuse & addiction, stress & life transitions, family & relationship issues, juvenile & criminal justice issues, prenatal & postpartum mental health, and parenting.

    Anu has a wide range of career experiences including working with young adults in the foster care system, supporting youth and families who had been diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder, providing training on Restorative Justice, consulting on Diversity, Equity and Inclusion, being an advocate and educator of mental health, as well as managing teams and programs for diverse populations.

    She is supporting the mindfulness-based mental health counseling program offered by Ways of the Rising Woman with her expertise in psychotherapy, cultural competency, and program management.

 
 
 
 

Our Team


 
 
  • Ali is an experienced healer who uses massage therapy and Reiki in her vibrant private practice. Ali received her training from the McKinnon Institute, an accredited and nationally recognized organization, located in Oakland. She continued her training at the Body Therapy Center in Palo Alto, in addition to numerous workshops to further her scope of massage, healing and the human body. Her modalities include the following: Sports Massage, Clinical Deep Tissue, Reflexology, Expectant Mother, Hot Stone Therapy, Chair Massage, Swedish and Reiki. Ali is also a Certified Reposturist.

    Her passion is helping people live pain-free and happy lives.

    Ali’s objectives are to help you become more aware of your body, how it holds tension, and how to live a more relaxed and pain-free existence. Ali teaches as she works. She focuses on empowering her client, so that they take an active part in their health. Her clients range from three year olds to seniors in their 90’s. She loves her work and thrives from helping others find health, vitality and balance in their everyday life.

    ​Ali joyfully continues to offer her many wellness services at the Moving Into the Light Women's Retreats since its creation in 2011.

  • Ana Maria holds a Master’s Degree in Counseling Psychology and is a Holistic Counselor and founder of Free the Light Within. Her desire to help others was greatly stemmed by the trauma she suffered as a victim of childhood sexual abuse. However, her education and career couldn’t overcome the lasting effects and feelings of unworthiness from that abuse, and the risky behaviors she engaged in as a teen exacerbated, leaving her deeply depressed and in pain.

    For 10 years, Ana Maria worked with San Mateo County in Special Education and The Mental Health Department, specifically with the probationary population. Within that period, her duties ranged from substitute teacher to case manager, social worker, then bilingual therapist.

    Ana Maria is a Licensed Louise Hay Heal Your Life Teacher and Workshop Facilitator. She received her Reiki Training and Attunements from Reiki Master Teacher, Geneveive Vulser, M.A.

    In addition, Ana Maria has studied with internationally-renowned healer Master Stephen Co, and she received Certification in Pranic Energy Healing and has also extensively studied the esoteric teachings of The Kabbalah (The Tree of Life) with Jim and Megan Larkin, Ph.D.

    Ana Maria is a compassionate healer, providing a depth of understanding that comes from personal experience and knowledge of pain, self-sabotaging behaviors, healing, and the sometimes inevitable setbacks that challenge us as we peel away the layers of pain to reveal the beauty of the inner spirit that is individually our own.

    She has been a wellness practitioner at the Moving Into The Light Women's Retreats.

    Ana Maria Sanchez is also the bestselling author of Girl From the Hood Gone Good: One Woman’s Mission to Help Others Overcome a Pain Filled Past.

  • Aven Moran, MA, NBC-HWC

    Aven is an experienced Health & Wellness Coach, Counselor, and Health Content Writer.

    She is skilled in Resiliency Building, Health Management, and Habit Change.

    Aven holds a Masters Degree in Counseling with a focus in Health Psychology, Mindfulness and Motivational Interviewing. Her Health & Wellness Coach training was earned through the Mayo Clinic, and she is a National Board Certified Health & Wellness Coach (NBC-HWC).

    When Aven isn't working with clients on developing and achieving their personal visions of wellness, she enjoys swimming, knitting, reading or cherishing moments with her two growing sons.

    See more about her work at EverydayWellness.health, LLC.

  • ​Deanaletta is a recent psychology graduate from the University of Tampa and will soon be pursuing a Masters degree. She is passionate about sexual and reproductive health, positive sexuality, inclusion and diversity, and mindfulness-based approaches used to address sexual concerns.

    Deanaletta has experience conducting sexuality research and works diligently to find experiences related to the field of human sexuality.

    Deanaletta is writing engaging and inspiring content for our monthly newsletters.

 
 
  • Gina is a Supply Chain Manager at a medical device company by day and a spiritual ninja by night. She uses her extensive skills to support the health and well-being of others.

    Gina was inspired to pursue her passion to become a Mindfulness Meditation Teacher after attending a Dragonfly wellness retreat 2 years ago led by Melissa Sutor. She is grateful to be a lifelong learner committed to personal development and being of service to the community.

    She enjoys hanging out with her Daughters, Grandkids, and furbabies. Gina also likes spending time listening to music, going on nature walks, attending workshops and shopping.

  • Heather is a renown sound healer, mystic, cultural creative and recording artist. She is the co-author of Rise, Amazing Woman, Rise and Lead, Amazing Woman, Lead book series and the author of her own World Fusion Plant Based Soul Food Recipe Book. She has produced over 25 popular sound healing journeys available on MP3.

    Heather has been an innovative pioneer in the field of ritual, sound healing, sacred activism, transformation and performing arts for 20 years and is a High Priestess ordained in the Essene and Temple of Isis lineages. She shares the teachings of the Sevenfold Path of Peace, as well as, feminine wisdom and leadership.

    Hailing from Toronto, Heather is of Jamaican and Celtic descent and resides on the island of Maui, Hawaii at the Black Swan Temple an Eco Sanctuary she co-founded with her husband Donny Regalmuto. They offer ongoing yoga and sound healing transformative retreats, sacred site pilgrimages, mystery school trainings, and Mystical Alchemy Sound Healing Ceremonies.

  • Jen is an intercultural communicator and educator working in the mental health field helping to create a community sharing stories of post-traumatic growth. She has lived in multiple countries, including Jakarta, Indonesia; Cheongju, South Korea; Hiroshima, Japan; and Beijing, China, where she experienced different communicative and wellness practices throughout her journey.

    ​She is located in Chicago, Illinois and is currently pivoting into data science.

    Jen is writing engaging and inspiring content for our monthly newsletters.

  • ​Kini is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and an Adjunct Professor and Field Placement Director at Holy Names University Counseling and Forensic Psychology Program. Her role as an educator, activist, and healer are guiding principles in her work in the community. Her expertise: trauma associated with systemic oppression, social inequity, community violence, abuse and attachment, juvenile justice, and grief and loss.

    As an advocate for quality holistic, innovative, and accessible healthcare for all, she is a member of the UCSF Integrative Health and Medicine Committee to integrate holistic and nontraditional forms of wellness and medicine into our healthcare to offer alternatives and culturally accommodating services. In addition to her role at the hospital and university, she has a private practice in Oakland, CA where she specializes in intergenerational and familial trauma, transitional struggles and life challenges, anxiety and depression, multicultural and racial couples therapy, as well as parent education and coaching on adolescent development and child-rearing.

    With 15 years of experience working with teens, adults, and families, she is dedicated to the holistic healing of the mind, body, and soul. She is a native to the SF Bay Area, artist, dancer, avid traveler, and finds creative expression and storytelling as a platform for deep healing. Many people describe her as warm, understanding, and down to earth.

    kinichang.com

 
 
  • Lisa is an editor and ghostwriter who assists existing and new authors in creating exceptional prose and reaching new readers. A UNESCO award winner for peacebuilding education, Lisa works with household-name clients like Eckhart Tolle, His Holiness the Dalai Lama, Marianne Williamson, Geneen Roth, Ashanti Branch, and many others, to refine and deliver their teachings to the world.

    She is an award-winning short story and poetry author, the 2015 winner of the Canadian Creative Writers and Writing Programs inaugural prize, and a former academic director at the University of British Columbia in global economics and community development.

  • ​Nishi is an AFPA (American Fitness Professional Associates) certified Personal Trainer, and Nutrition and Wellness Consultant. She is a South Asian by birth with a trained western influence in the food, fashion and fitness industry.

    Nishi supports people to get on their nutrition goals, engage in their fitness regime and dress up their personality, right out of their house with 100% online services through her company Food, Fitness & Fashion.

    Her services revolve around personalization with 80% nutrition, 20% fitness, and 100% mindset that is customized and tailored to the clients needs with daily checkins and motivation without drastic lifestyle changes. Her offerings include training based on HIIT, Weight training, Cardio, Strength Training, Pilates and Yoga. She helps her clients improve their lives with only a 10-15 min investment on a daily basis. She provides wholesome easy to make, tasty recipes for all including gluten-free, vegan, and paleo options.

    Nishi is a mom, an Engineering Leader by profession and an aspiring AMERICAN SMOOTH Ballroom Dancer competing in the US. She lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her husband and 12 year old daughter. Her husband is a cross fit junkie and her daughter pours her heart into Tap dancing.

    Nishi is a Retreat Leader with Dragonfly Healing Center, facilitating workshops and sharing inspiration at numerous retreats.

  • Pooja Sathyanarayanan, MA, MSc

    Pooja holds a Master’s in Positive Developmental Psychology from Claremont Graduate University and a Master’s in Applied Psychology, Clinical Specialisation from Pondicherry University, India. She has worked and volunteered in non-profit, behavioral science research and tech start-up settings.

    As a participant of the Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction 4-week course and the Mindful Self-Compassion 5-day intensive, she has learned to tend to the stresses and anxieties in her life from a space of self-compassion and by turning toward rather than resisting unpleasant emotions and feelings. She is constantly seeking opportunities to understand and create content related to the human capacity to flourish and thrive.

    ​In her spare time, she enjoys reading, hiking and window shopping at gift stores.

Sher Gibbs
  • Sher Gibbs, MBA, PhD

    Dr. Sher Gibbs is the Senior Management Consultant for Ways of the Rising Woman. Sher is the Dean at Monfort College of Business at the University of Northern Colorado, UNC, and the President/CEO of GCNF Ventures, Inc. Her background is in software engineering and business. Dr. Gibbs has more than fourteen years experience in IT and an unwavering passion for all things "entrepreneurship". She assists start-ups and small business owners with business development and strategy, new product development, and innovation. Dr. Gibbs has started four business ventures and has a keen eye for great new business ideas. She is extremely proficient in business and technical writing, identifying new business opportunities, and performing industry, market and competitive research. She consults with businesses large and small, including our nonprofit organization.

    Dr. Gibbs is the current Director at Large for the United States Association for Small Business and Entrepreneurship, whose mission is to provide the network to advance knowledge and foster business development through entrepreneurship education and research. She is also involved in other meaningful initiatives in service to our nation, including community service organizations and aligned professional affiliations.

 
 
  • Sookie (she/her) has been teaching yoga since 2004 and practicing since 1997. While her foundations are in the Iyengar and Ashtanga traditions, she discovered the deep benefits of Yin Yoga and became one of its first teachers in the DC area in 2009.

    ​Sookie immigrated from Seoul, S. Korea with her family when she was eight years old and grew up in the suburbs of Maryland. She studied Computer Engineering at Case Western Reserve University in Cleveland, Ohio and enjoyed many years in sales, marketing and software development at Microsoft and Hewlett-Packard while raising her family.

    She is a yogi, ceramist, writer, outrigger canoe paddler and community volunteer. She and her husband of thirty years live on Maui and have two adult children who have flown the nest.

  • Yasmina Porter, RYT

    Yasmina Porter is a Dance historian and Fulbright Scholar raised in Ghana West Africa. She is a Prayer Practitioner, Professor, Storyteller, Mindful Dating Coach, and Certified Teacher of Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction. She received a traditional Yoga education. She worked one on one and in small classes with her guru, Montanette Bennet at an Ashram in Ghana over a four year period. Porter went on to study within a secular Ashram in Bangalore,India and become Certified in Pre-natal and Post Partum Yoga through whole Birth Yoga. She received her qualification to teach through her guru in 1996, and went on to be the primary Yoga teacher at her own studio, Funk Works, in Emeryville, California.

    ​Yasmina Porter is currently on the faculty at Cabrillo College in the Dance Department and the Academy for College Excellence where she is a Professor of Movement, Stress Reduction and Yoga. She is also a fluent Spanish speaker.

    Yasmina has completed the Advanced Retreat Teacher Training Certification through Dragonfly Healing Center and has led workshops teaching yoga and dance at several of the Moving Into The Light Women's Retreats.

  • Yolanda Rhodes, soprano, a native of East Palo Alto, began to develop her musical gifts as a young adult. She studied voice with Joseph Frank and Kaye DeVries. She worked with mentors in the worlds of jazz and theatre. An active soloist and recitalist, Ms. Rhodes has been a featured singer with AACI every year since its founding. She has performed newly commissioned works by Joshua McGhee and Valerie Capers and an extensive repertoire of artsongs and spiritual settings by numerous composers including H. Leslie Adams, Margaret Bonds, Jacqueline Hairston, Betty Jackson King, Lena McLin, Zenobia Powell Perry, Florence Price, Hale Smith, and William Grant Still, among many others. Her recital repertoire includes American and European arias and artsongs from a wide range of eras, as well as spiritual arrangements and solo renditions of spirituals. With pianist Josephine Gandolfi she has collaborated in vocal jazz arrangements of classical works.

    The Moving Into The Light Women's Retreats are blessed by Yolanda's gifts of creativity.

    Yolanda offers private voice coaching as a path of liberation as she guides you in freeing your own voice.

 
Asha Goldwebber
  • Asha Goldweber, Ph.D., RYT, is a yoga and meditation teacher, writer, and research scientist—and is dedicated to making these fields accessible and meaningful. Translating contemplative science and harnessing the power of the heart-mind-body connection, Asha’s offerings empower and elevate. Her work spans corporate, private, and community based settings (e.g., tech companies, studios, juvenile justice systems, and after school programs).

    From a young age Asha was exposed to Eastern philosophy. Her late mother, a Sri Lankan immigrant, would frequently host Buddhist monks at their home for dana and encourage service at the Washington Buddhist Vihara. A lifelong student, Asha began studying and practicing yoga over 18 years ago. She is devoted to sharing yoga with each student—to help them embody their true nature, and for the benefit of all beings. She teaches from the heartbeat of her practice: Bhakti (the yoga of love and devotion) and compassionate service.

    Asha challenges students to show up for themselves—to elevate themselves and everyone, everyday; to see possibilities; and to do so with joy and equanimity. Her intention is to offer radical self-acceptance, laughter liberation, gratitude and the urgency to rise, particularly to women and girls of color and system involved youth.

    In 2015, she founded Women of Power, a salon for intersectional feminism and action, which has (inter) national chapters. She has attended Summer Arts at CSUMB where she studied and honed her writing. Asha’s writing appears in Feminist Wire and Chapbooks. She recently submitted pieces entitled, “A Confirmatory Factor Analysis of Being Other” and “Seeing and Being Seen.”

    In her previous life, Asha worked as a research scientist at SRI International and Johns Hopkins University—where she designed and evaluated statewide mental health initiatives and evidence-based, prevention programs in schools.

Nancy Kioko
  • Nancy is a virtual assistant based in Nairobi, Kenya. She has a Bachelor’s degree in Development Studies and a certificate in child psychology from Daystar University. Nancy has worked as an administrative assistant supporting non-governmental organizations that dealt with children, young people and mothers in Kenya. She has gained excellent communication skills, organization and empathy for clients over the years. She has worked with communities and community groups while helping women to start up small businesses and savings groups. Nancy loves supporting small businesses and organization to scale into heights through social media management and presence.

    Currently, she is supporting the Ways of Rising Woman as a virtual assistant focused on social media.

 

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